When it comes to a choice between bros and hos you have to choose your bros. They’ve been there for you before, they’ll be there for you again. They pick you up, make you laugh, help you out and see you right. They are loyal, trustworthy and kind. They’ll tell you the truth and will look after your back.
Lovers have little loyalty, they let you down, disappoint you and do you wrong. They don’t really care about you, just themselves. Many of the things they do are designed to get you to like them more. And when you really need them you can be sure they won’t be there.

Friendships last a lifetime because they are built up slowly, through shared passions and experiences. We choose our friends because of what they bring to our lives and how they make us feel about ourselves. Relationships, on the other hand, usually come into being because of some primitive chemical spark- they are less a ‘choice’ than an impulse. Once the initial rush of hormones fade, there isn’t really much left to work with, which is why so many couples split up after a few months, or years if they’re lucky.
Why would you put someone you find attractive because of some inexplicable evolutionary instinct before the people that you have a genuine emotional and intellectual bond with?